It feels like there’s a lot happening right now, doesn’t it? If life is “lifin’” for me, I know it’s probably lifin’ for you too. When everything feels chaotic, it’s so easy to get swept up in the noise — to let intrusive thoughts sneak in and start running the show. When that happens, I go back […]
Author: Absolutely Shell
Welcome to Absolutely Shell, a sanctuary where we embrace new beginnings, navigate the adventures of having young adult children, and explore the art of reinvention. I’m Shell, a woman who believes that every chapter in life is an opportunity to grow, learn, and rediscover ourselves.
As a mother to young adults, I've experienced the bittersweet transition of watching my children spread their wings and soar into their own lives. This blog is a space to share the joys and challenges of parenting from this unique vantage point. It's a journey filled with laughter, tears, and everything in between.
Reinventing myself has been a crucial part of this journey. Life has thrown its fair share of challenges my way, but each obstacle has been a steppingstone toward a stronger, more authentic self. Absolutely Shell is a reflection of this ongoing transformation. Here, I share insights on embracing change, finding new passions, and staying resilient through life’s ups and downs.
Learning from past experiences is a cornerstone of my philosophy. Through personal stories and reflections, I hope to offer wisdom and encouragement to others facing similar paths. Whether it’s navigating the complexities of relationships, overcoming personal struggles, or simply finding joy in everyday moments, this blog is a testament to the power of resilience and the beauty of starting anew.
Join me on this journey of self-discovery, growth, and renewal. At Absolutely Shell, we celebrate the power of new beginnings and the endless possibilities that life has to offer.
Welcome to the adventure!
The Power of ‘I Am’: Thoughts on Self-Acceptance
Random Thoughts Hey love bugs! 💕 Lately, I’ve had an influx of random thoughts that continuously rattle around in my head with no rhyme or reason. At first, I tried to incorporate some of these arbitrary thoughts into my blogs, but it’s just not coming together the way I’d like. So instead of torturing myself […]
Celebrations, Adventures, and Reflections: A Birthday in Los Angeles and the Struggle with a Toxic Workplace
Hey Love Bugs! Life is a roller coaster of highs and lows, with moments that leave us exhilarated and others that test our resilience. Recently, I had the opportunity to experience both extremes—celebrating a milestone birthday in Los Angeles with my child (they/them) and sister and dealing with the challenges of a toxic office environment. Here’s […]
SPRING TINGS & GOOD TINGS
Hey Love Bugs! I know, I know… 😔…. it’s been a minute and for that I apologize. I don’t even have an excuse. All I can say is I’m workin’ on it and need a little grace. But oh how I’ve missed you!!! You guys alright? What’s been going on with you? No seriously…send me a […]
It’s Not You,It’s Them…..
Hey love bugs! How ya’ll feelin’? Ya’ll alright? The holidays are here! For some of us it’s the most social action we’ve had all year. Whether it’s traveling to spend the holidays with family, holiday parties at work, gift exchange parties or shopping in these pandemonium streets; mouth breathers are out in full force leaving […]
Focused or Fatigued?
Hey Love Bugs! I LOVE that I can vote and do so religiously. But those “Satan-awful” (I’ve decided that this sounds better than the common phrase “God awful”. My God has nothing awful about Him) campaign ads that they constantly shove in our faces irritates my soul. And they’re here to stay. There’s a runoff […]
When The Storm Clears….
Hey Love Bugs! How ya’ll feelin’? Ya’ll alright? I took these pictures yesterday after a thunderstorm. I was sitting in my room and noticed a beautiful orange hue bathing the trees with autumn-colored leaves and the grass still wet from the passing storm in my backyard. I grabbed my phone and shuffled as quickly as […]
When the Sh%t Goes Down!
“You must have the right people on your team when the sh%t goes down”
LOLLAPALOOZA OWES ME NOTHING!!
Hey Love Bugs! My child TylerChristian performed background vocals (BGV) and also choreographed the set for their fellow Berklee College of Music classmate Aiida (she killed it by the way!) at Lollapalooza Friday, July 29th on the “DISCORD” stage!!! To say I am on cloud 9 is an understatement!! I am rolling around in so many emotions from pure […]
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