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LOLLAPALOOZA OWES ME NOTHING!!
Hey Love Bugs! My child TylerChristian performed background vocals (BGV) and also choreographed the set for their fellow Berklee College of Music classmate Aiida (she killed it by the way!) at Lollapalooza Friday, July 29th on the “DISCORD” stage!!! To say I am on cloud 9 is an understatement!! I am rolling around in so many emotions from pure […]
Transitions and Such….
Hey love bugs! Happy Memorial Day! Happy PRIDE month! Happy Summer Solstice! Happy Juneteenth! Happy 4th! Did I cover all the holidays? So much going on in my life and the world. That’s no excuse for another hiatus. I’m going to be honest; I’ve attempted to write this post several times. I just could not find the motivation. The […]
WHAT IN THE WORLD?!
Hey Love Bugs! Ya’ll good? Whatcha’ been up to? This post is a smidge longer than my usual ones. A recent car accident which thankfully we all walked away from, ongoing therapy sessions and doctor appointments, and waiting for a replacement laptop has temporarily kept me from being great. But, I can’t be held down 🙂 […]
Life Happens
Hey Love Bugs! How are you all doing? Whatcha’ been up to? I know it’s been a minute. Please pardon my absence, life has been lifing!! Can I be transparent with you guys right now? I have had some stuff happening in my life recently; like a year’s worth in only a few months. So let’s […]
Merry December!!
Happy December love bugs! Whew! It seems like time keeps speeding up. I feel like there’s so much to do but not enough time these days. I’ve been traveling with my youngest as they pursue their dreams (can’t wait to share!), while guiding my oldest through the journey of young adulthood. Add on responsibilities of […]
Holiday Season Already?
Hey Lovebugs! I don’t know about you all, but my days are filled to capacity….with sheer self-avoidance. By that I mean losing myself in a good steamy book (shout out to Unconditional: A Collection of Passion-fy Short Stories by Author DNC https://www.amazon.com/DNC/e/B01HH0RHBK%3Fref=dbs_a_mng_rwt_scns_share), a few glasses of wine, and submerging into an alternate fantasy. I’d rather […]
Fighting Hot Flashes: More Fans Please!
Hey Love Bugs! So, I remember learning about hot flashes or vasomotor symptoms, when I was in my 20’s. But it’s different when you physically deal with them. I’m here to tell you the truths about hot flashes in 40’s. I know what you’re thinking, “hot flashes in your forties isn’t really a thing,” but […]
Things that they don’t tell you about 40
Remember when they said that 30 is the new 20? Then shouldn’t mean that 40 is the new 30? Well, I’m here to tell ya, it ain’t. Forty is forty. It comes with ups and downs but it’s still a blessing to be able to see it. But since I have ya’ll here, let’s chat […]
Advice for parents struggling in the LGBTQ+ Community
Being the parent of a child that identifies as gay and non-binary, can lead you down a tough road of uncertainty, understanding, and advocacy. There are so many questions and not enough answers to guide you. In the beginning, it felt like an emotional rollercoaster. First, it was self-blame, embarrassment, and depression that finally transitioned […]
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